Back to School

by Pat Chiappa on August 27, 2010

Isn’t is fascinating how much there is to learn in life?  If we are open to it, not only do life lessons come to us each day, but the opportunity to learn ‘hard’ skills such as social media marketing.

When I decided to write and publish a book, I found a huge amount of help on-line. Susan Daffron of Logical Expressions was recommended to me by a friend Jill  Nussinow, The Veggie Queen, and in addition to offering a plethora of free materials on her site, she held a self-publishers on-line conference which was also free. Paid attendees had more access than non-payers, but like the kid standing outside the fence of the ballgame,  you could still watch the action – and possibly even catch a fly ball. I still refer to my many pages of notes taken by the excellent speakers she lined up for this event.

When I decided I needed a blogsite, I found huge amounts of free webinars and download on-line in addition to the general help regular folks who have been-there-done-that are willing to give. Denise Wakeman of The Blog Squad (great name!) offers an amazing amount of quality, valuable information – again, all for free. And then there are all the wonderful referrals. Just today, because i am on Denise’s e-mail list, she sent and invitation to a webinar Christina Hills was putting on. I had never heard of her, but as it happens,  she is in my backyard, up in the Sierras, Grass Valley, CA.

Now I know these folks are trying to make a living, just like the rest of us, and my intention is never to just grab free stuff and never pay or offer anything in return. But when you are just learning, you just don’t know what you need.

As an example, last year, I was paying someone an hourly rate to teach me social media marketing, and although she is very nice, she didn’t tell me anything I couldn’t have found on my own – for free.  But even so, it was fun to ‘get in the game’ and get started learning something new. And like a treasure hunt, that training, led me to other things I didn’t even know I wanted to do – such as the knowledge and ability to build a website. Previously, that would have scared me senseless.

Had I not been dipping my feet in the water for the past year, I would be completely lost in the training I’m currently doing with HubSpot, an internet marketing company in Cambridge, Mass.  The material I’m learning and applying is complex, exciting, interesting, valuable and like all good classwork – exhausting. Oh, and it’s not free – although, once you sign on with them, they do give you tons of material to continue learning. So far, I’ve very impressed and feel the cost is well worth the value.

I put myself through college, so I appreciate the value of education. I put my heart and soul into learning something new and although I certainly haven’t mastered this stuff – not by a long shot – it feels good to be stretching myself out of my comfort zone.

I’m also taking Qigong classes and just today the instructor acknowledged us newer students by saying how easy it is to go about your day, knowing what to do and what is expected of you. And you can go through your whole life that way which is fine – but it’s not for me. I don’t get bored, I get thirsty, thirsty for knowledge.

When you try something new, it’s uncomfortable – sometimes physically, sometimes mentally and often emotionally. I love to learn so I often find myself in the role of new student and it’s always uncomfortable, but only for a short time.

As a kid, toward the end of summer, I began to get excited. I looked forward to the start of the school year and as an adult, I still look forward to it.  The thing that’s missing for me now is that familiar smell of new fresh notebooks, pencils and erasers.

Remember that?

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A Palindrome Has Nothing to Do With Sarah Palin

by Pat Chiappa on August 18, 2010

Palindrome Video

This is only a 1 minute, 44 second video and it is brilliant.   Make sure you read as well as listen…forward and backward.

This is a video that was submitted in a contest by a 20-year old.  The contest was titled “u @ 50″ by  AARP.  This video won second place.  When they showed it, everyone in the room was awe-struck and broke into spontaneous applause.  So simple and yet so brilliant.

Click here  Lost Generation <http://www.youtube.com/watch_popup?v=42E2fAWM6rA>

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Goal Setting – Progress & Bumps in the Road

by Pat Chiappa August 6, 2010

We just passed the half way mark of 2010, and it was time for Mark and I to check in on our goals for the year.  In my book Year Ahead/Year in Review, I recommend couples get together quarterly to talk about their goals and progress and to make any adjustments if needed. I also [...]

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Finance & Romance on Forbes.com

by Pat Chiappa July 22, 2010

My husband Mark is a financial guy and he was recently interviewed for and article titled Finance & Romance: A Perfect Marriage? for Forbes.com. And here’s what he had to say: “Delegating money tasks is another way to build trust and improve communication. While it is common for money to be a source of suspicion [...]

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Celebration or Not?

by Pat Chiappa July 14, 2010

Today I received an e-mail from a good friend who is distraught about her lost dog.  The dog, Tilley, has been lost since July 4th, the night of the holiday fireworks display in Tehachapi, CA. I sent an e-mail out to my friends asking for prayers and positive energy in my friend finding Tilley.   [...]

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Oprah’s Debt Diet finale

by Pat Chiappa July 8, 2010

I previously taped and finally watched the final installment in the five-part series of Oprah Winfrey’s Debt Diet.  I recently posted about the first show where financial expert Jean Chatzky along with best selling author David Bach and money coach Glinda Bridgforth each teamed up with a family in financial trouble and placed them on [...]

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Have a Security Freeze on Your Credit Report?

by Pat Chiappa July 1, 2010

Have you ever heard of the placing a security or credit freeze on your credit report? Here’s what consumer advocate Clark Howard says: “Credit freezes are one of the most effective tools against economic ID theft available to consumers.”  So I wonder, why aren’t more people doing it? My husband Mark and I recently had [...]

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Frugal or Smart?

by Pat Chiappa June 29, 2010

Frugality is big right now. Last year, a friend called frugal “the new black.” People everywhere are standing tall and proud and claiming themselves as frugal, and each person has their own measurement of what frugal means to them.  Some call cutting back on dining out from four times a week to once a week [...]

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Barry McGuire – Eve of Destruction updated for 2010

by Pat Chiappa June 23, 2010

I remember Barry McGuire singing ”Eve of Destruction” in the 60′s and it was a scary prospect at the time – thinking the end was near.   Forty-five years later, he’s updated it with new lyrics and a powerful, disturbing video.  When he sings, “You don’t believe we’re still on the eve of destruction”, it makes me [...]

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Summer Solstice – The Longest Day of the Year

by Pat Chiappa June 21, 2010

Besides the fact that June 21st is my 3 year old nephew Ben’s birthday, and that it is also the longest day of the year – I got to thinking that it’s also a great time to recommit, reconsider, reestablish or reaffirm your plans for 2010. You know the feeling you get on January 1st, [...]

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